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Vacation, Baby!

Fare thee well suckers, I’m off to New Zealand for vacation! Yee-haaaahhhhh

I’ll be visiting my college roommate/swimming teammate, who’s a physician there. I’ll be blogless and internetless for over a week *feels withdrawal shakes coming* so I’ll catch up with you when I return.

Did you know there are more sheep than people in New Zealand? It’s true!

One of the places we’ll visit is Milford Sound which looks like this:

Wow, I can’t wait. When I return to the states I’ll have some more information about the upcoming release date of Bad Behavior, the second book in The Conduct Series.

Jen xx


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Interview with Author Carol Oates

It’s my pleasure today to interview Carol Oates, author of Shades of Atlantis! See my review here.

Jennifer Lane (JL): You live in Dublin but Shades of Atlantis takes place in Maine for the first half of the story. What made you choose Maine as the initial setting?

Carol Oates (CO): Ireland may be the land of saints and scholars but I’ve found it very difficult to fit in with the publishing industry here. The type of paranormal romance I write is available in Ireland but generally it is by authors from outside Ireland. This is even more apparent with Young Adult.

When I started writing Shades of Atlantis I knew I was writing it to submit outside Ireland and I wanted to include locations outside Ireland. There are specific reasons for every location in the book. There is rarely anything random in anything I write. Camden, Maine is south of a town called Belfast. Dublin, Ireland is another location and my home town. Dublin is also south of Belfast. Part of the story takes place in London in an area near Camden.

JL: What do you do for a day job?

CO: I work in an office that deals with people who have been refused financial help from the government. It is the person’s legal entitlement to appeal that decision and we put those people through the process. Before that I worked in welfare fraud prosecution for twelve years.

From August I will be taking two years leave to concentrate on caring for my son. Eric is autistic and requires full-time care. I want to be with him for his last year of school and as he transitions to after school life. It also means that while I’m at home I will be able to give more time to writing.

JL: I’m glad you’ll have more time with your son. How do you squeeze in writing with work and family?

CO: There is a lot of juggling involved. I am extremely lucky to come from a close family. My partner lives and works in Fermanagh while I am in Dublin with Eric until he finishes school. Places in good special needs schools are hard to come by. My dad cares for Eric while I’m at work and my partner, Rodney often takes Eric out for boys days with my dad and brothers at the weekend. This gives me a chance to catch up on writing. My brother has a secluded house in Cavan, if Eric is away for a night I go there, hide out and write. I can also be found during any coffee-break with my notebook and pen in the canteen at work.

JL: What’s it been like to live in Ireland and publish with a company in the U.S.?

CO: There are a lot of e-mails. I suppose the biggest difference between me and someone living in the US with the same publisher is timezones. I don’t find this much of a problem because Eric isn’t a good sleeper and I am a chronic insomniac so I am usually awake to speak to people when they need me.

I am asked why a US publisher quite often. I would like to be published in Ireland one day and I actually had this conversation with a man who has been involved with Irish Publishing for the last thirty years. His advice to me was to go where my largest market is. I write because I love writing but I publish because I want my work to reach more readers.

JL: I’m a huge fan of U2 (With or Without You is my favorite song!) but know very little about Ireland. What would you like folks to know about your country?

CO: I live a short walk from the school where U2 met and Croke Park where they hold their Dublin concerts. When they were doing sound checks for their last concert in Croke Park my dad complained about the noise they made during rehearsals before they were famous. So some things never change.

U2 doesn’t even scratch the surface of the talent that has come out of this country in all forms of entertainment, Van Morrison, Thin Lizzy, The Cranberries, W.B. Yeats, Bram Stoker, Christy Brown. Ireland had and still has a thriving movie industry and my dad has met some of the greats who filmed here including Liz Taylor, Richard Burton, Kim Novak. Ireland is well known for lush scenic locations as well as the grittier city ones.

We have a very rich and colourful history in Ireland with archaeological sites including The Hill of Tara that pre-date the pyramids at Giza by 600 years. In one version of the history of Stonehenge it was originally erected in Ireland and moved to England by Druids under orders from Merlin. Ireland has been invaded by the Spanish and Vikings among others, more recently we were under English Rule. The buildings and monuments of Ireland reflect influences of all these eras.

After the war of Independence, Ireland became a free state in 1922 and in 1948 became the Republic of Ireland.

I should also give a mention to one of our most famous exports, the good ole pint of Guinness. The Guinness storehouse was originally leased by Arthur Guinness in 1749 for £45 per year and began brewing porter in the 1700’s using water from the Liffey River in Dublin. It was a good thing for him that the business was a success since Arthur had 21 children.

Thank you, Carol. Please visit http://artisttrust.ie/ Carol supports the Sean Lawlor Trust.

Go and get yourself a copy of Shades of Atlantis!

And now it’s time for the Meet an Author Monday Blog Hop hosted by Lisa Sanchez.
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Winner!

The Winner of the Follower Love Giveaway Hop is . . .
NAELANY aka Karin!!!
Congratulations, Karin. I’ll be sending a signed copy of With Good Behavior to you soon.
Thank you to all the entrants! I wish I could give a book to each of you. My publisher confirmed that the second book of The Conduct Series Bad Behavior will be released in March (likely 3-22-11 but possibly as early as 3-8-11) so stay tuned!
Happy Valentine’s Day.
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Guest Blogger: Angelina Rain

Today I’m excited to host fellow author and blogger Angelina Rain.

She has a sultry short story “The Problem With Love Spells” coming out in the anthology Indecent Encounters in two short days, 2-9-11! Angelina also has a contemporary romance under contract.

Here’s what Angelina has to say about the windy road to publication:

You Sold a Book. Now What?

You’ve worked over it, stressed over it, probably even found a few grey hairs because of it. So what is this “it”? The book you worked so hard to write, edit, and submit. And what do you get for all that hard work? A “Thanks, but no thanks,” letter. It’s devastating, heart crushing, and it makes you wonder will you ever get there.

I’ve been very lucky as I haven’t had to deal with rejection upon rejection. My very first two submissions led to contracts. Here, I will be talking about my short story “The Problem with Love Spells” which is included in the “Indecent Encounters” ménage anthology.

When I opened “The Call” e-mail, I thought I was dreaming. Could my silly short story really be good enough for publishing? I found it hard to believe considering it took all of three days from starting to write it to ending the editing. Woo Hoo! All the hard work is over, I thought while doing my happy dance. Boy, was I wrong!

The first round of edits arrived just days after I signed the contract. They wanted me to be done with the edits in about a week. Although the edits looked scary, all they really contained were sentences that could be fixed to sound better. My second round of edits was nothing compared to the first and it only took me five minutes to fix that. Then the cover came. All that editing was the easy work.

I learned that being an author is not just writing the book. You have to promote it too. The publisher does their share by sending your book out for reviews, but what about the people who don’t read reviews? How can you sell the book to them?

A fellow author informed me of social media. It’s a great way to attract readers. I would need to blog more, and facebook, twitter, goodreads. The list of social media sites is large and you have to make yourself visible. Yicks! Me, visible! But I have severe social anxiety. I was already accustomed to blogger, and I even had a few followers who didn’t think my posts were boring. Couldn’t I just leave it at that? No. I had to be visible so I created that dreaded facebook page and that twitter account I barely use.

Besides the dreaded social media, I had to create a website. That turned out to be scarier than social media sites. All web hosts offer free templates. Boring templates that just didn’t fit my needs. And my knowledge of web design and HTML is limited to changing colors and adding the occasional picture. I had the option of paying somebody to design it, but I’m so broke I could only afford dinner at McDonalds’. So I finally designed the website, although it’s simple and boring looking.

So I’m done, right? NOPE! Now, the actual promoting of the book. The giveaways, the blog tours, the guest appearances at other blogs. *Fainting* Coming up with interesting things to share about myself and my road to publication. And the ticker . . . I only have two weeks to pull it off. But. . . But I’m boring. I don’t have a cool life. I don’t have fun things to share.

That social anxiety found a way to creep in. What if people don’t like me? What if I write something stupid and embarrass myself? Worse, what if people actually buy the book and read my short story . . . And hate it? Or is it worse if people love it, but everything else I write after is horrible that could never be published? What if I’m a one book wonder? Yicks! Is it too late to crawl under a rock and live there for the next ten or twenty years?

So what did I learn from my first publication? Writing the story is the easy part. Before the contract arrives, it’s all easy. It’s writing, editing, having creative freedom. So to all the unpublished writers out there. Enjoy it. Enjoy every story you write, all the characters you create, all of the writing decisions you make. It’s the fun part of the job, the actual writing.
Angie’s Fun Facts: According to my grandma, I’m related to Honore de Balzac (1799-1850), a French novelist.

Indecent Encounters (Out February 9th)

A Ménage Anthology, including “The Problem with Love Spells” by Angelina Rain

Sometimes a woman needs more than a lover…

Independent, lustful ladies find pleasure and intrigue with more than one man, from a scandalous vacation in Australia, to a forced seduction at a cabin in the woods. A witch needs to break a shameful spell, and an older woman slakes her sexual needs with two younger men. Cougars purr with unrequited desire and werewolves compete for the love of their mate. Satisfaction is just a sigh away as a surgeon bends the rules for her patient, and an over-stressed boss finds more than a little peace with secret admirers.

Find out what wicked delights await you with Indecent Encounters.

The Problem with Love Spells

When you’re cursed to live your whole life unloved, can you really be held responsible for casting a love spell? When Gretchen realizes that her love spell went wrong, her only option is to reverse it before too much damage is done. However, when she wakes with a werewolf and a vampire in her bed, she learns that even reversing a love spell could have its consequences.

~*~ GIVEAWAY ~*~

Angelina Rain is giving away one free copy of “Indecent Encounters” and it could be yours. All you have to do is comment or ask a question on her blog (she will answer it in the comments). One lucky winner will be announced on Feb 9th on Angelina’s blog. Leave your e-mail address so Angelina can e-mail you if you win.

Thanks, Angelina! Visit her website and enter to win a copy of Indecent Encounters on her blog.

Time for Meet An Author Monday, hosted by Lisa Sanchez.

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Lookin’ for Love Webhunt

Dear readers,

Omnific Publishing has some fun events going on to celebrate Valentine’s Day and their one year anniversary.

The Lookin’ for Love Web Hunt is going on until February 14th. Visit the author sites listed, find the secret message on a heart hidden somewhere on their sites, and enter to win the entire collection of Omnific e-books!

Astute reader Squally informed me my heart message was difficult to find due to some pictures on my site not loading, so I’ve moved it to another page on this site and hopefully it will be easier to find. If you can’t find it, email me by clicking on the “M” at the right of the page and I’ll give you a hint! The message is something Grant and Sophie would say to each other in Bad Behavior, the sequel to With Good Behavior which will be released in March 2011.

Omnific Publishing is having an Anniversary Sale. Buy one print book, get one free!

I’ll also be participating in a Follower Love Giveaway Hop February 8-13 so check back here for a chance to win books.

We’re having an icestorm in Ohio and I’m enjoying the day off work to catch up on social networking, writing, and editing. Hope your day is relaxing and fun.

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Where I Write

Our special theme for Meet an Author Monday Blog Hop is: Where Do You Write?

I started writing stories at a desk in my guest bedroom, where my internet connection resided. Then I stepped into the 21st century with wireless and haven’t strayed from the comforts of my living room sofa.

Usually my plus-sized cat Izzie is with me but she wasn’t cooperating with this photo session. A cat not cooperating? Shocker!
I’m trying to rein her in. Watch her try to escape, ha ha.

Check out the favorite places to write for the other authors on the Blog Hop, hosted by Lisa Sanchez!

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Interview with Author Brenda Pandos

Today I have the pleasure of interviewing the author of The Talisman Series, Brenda Pandos.

Before I get started, I want to announce a couple of fun events happening soon. We decided to do a monthly theme for our Meet an Author Monday Blog Hop (see below), and January’s theme is “Where Do You Write?” I’ll be posting a photo of my favorite writing spot next week, after I clear the clutter and clean a bit first. *blushes*

Secondly, we’re approaching the one year anniversary of Omnific Publishing. Who knew the home of “Romance Without Rules” could publish so many great romances in less than a year? I’m currently reading Shades of Atlantis by Carol Oates and loving it. Omnific is hosting a “Lookin’ for Love Webhunt” with nine authors’ websites. Basically, I hid a heart somewhere on my website with a secret message (it could definitely be something Sophie tells Grant in Bad Behavior). Starting February 1st, if you find the hidden message on each author’s website and then go to the entry form, you might win the ENTIRE collection of Omnific e-books! Good luck.

Now on to my interview with the lovely Brenda Pandos. I’ve read and reviewed The Emerald Talisman and The Sapphire Talisman Here’s a brief overview of book one:

The Emerald Talisman is the first book, featuring Julia, a sixteen year-old blonde living in northern California. Her life is rather normal except for the unexplained death of her mother when Julia was young. Julia reportedly witnessed the event but doesn’t remember what happened.

Her normal life shifts into the paranormal when a strong young man rescues her from peril. Nicholas seems so calming and warm that Julia falls into despair when he doesn’t return her calls. At one point Nicholas is downright cold to her and at others he simply avoids her, though she can still feel his longing for her. Talk about mixed signals! Luckily Julia meets a kind boy named Phil, who just moved into town. It seems like their friendship might help her deal with the loss of Nicholas in her life. However, Phil gets attacked, which sets into motion a threatening vampire triangle with Nicholas, Phil, and Julia—-will Julia survive?
 
I loved having the chance to hear more from Mizz Author herself!

Jennifer Lane (JL): First things first. Are you Team Nicholas or Team Phil?

Brenda Pandos (BP): How could I choose? They are both the types of guys I like . . . bad and good, daring and dependable, lovable and mysterious. Though, if I were in the car with Phil tempting me to come outside, I’d be a goner. The door would be open in an instant. Then I’d be a vampire and the guilt would ensue after I saw Nicholas again. I’m glad, in real life, I don’t have to choose. Team both!

JL: I thought you’d say that! Like many of us, it sounds like you didn’t necessarily plan to become an author. Please share your journey to publication.

BP: If you would have told me 10 years ago I’d be an author, I would have fallen over in laughter. But it makes sense that I am. I’ve always been overly imaginative and crave a good puzzle to solve. Writing gives me that outlet and it fits perfect into my wild-n-crazy life. It’s also fulfilling in a way I didn’t believe possible.

But the push was my son’s autism spectrum diagnosis. I needed something to keep me from sinking into a hole of despair during those really rough first months. Next to cancer, it’s the one thing you NEVER are prepared as a parent to hear, even if you think something might be wrong. I wish… I wish… I wish I would have researched vaccines better. Anyway. I started Twilight and thought “I could do this,” like so many of my new author friends have done. Most novels are so intimidating to me with the intricacies of the storyline and plot, but Stephenie made it look easy. We both know it’s not. Four months later, I had a really rough manuscript I entered into the Amazon Breakthrough Novel award contest, and I made it to the quarterfinals. That gave me the courage to press on towards publication.

JL: Congratulations of your award! Way to take life’s lemons and write hot lemons. How is your son progressing now?

BP: He’s doing amazingly well. We are very pleased. We’ve got the best therapy team ever and he’s going to be starting Kindergarten in the fall with typical kids.

JL: How much is Julia representative of you as a 16 year-old?

BP: Quite a bit actually. I’m keen into picking up on non-verbal cues, especially if someone’s just making things awkward, though emotion-reading could be useful. One criticism I often get from 20 to 30-something readers is that Julia fell too fast. At sixteen, if some hot guy saved me from a bloodthirsty stalker and carried me home, I’d be swooning for life (or even now at 38). But then I’m a fast faller. In high school, if cute boy said “hi” or even did a peek-a-boo look at me, he’d be on my mind for a while or until another caught my eye. But since Julia felt the feelings behind adolescent angst, it was a turn-off. Where I’m different is I’m outgoing and pretty decent at math.

JL: I loved the character of Enigma the cat. Do you have cats? How did you create her character?

BP: We’ve got a red-haired tabby named Buster we rescued from the pound. He’s got a great personality for a cat. In one of my brainstorming sessions, I thought a mysterious cat with the name Enigma would make an excellent character. With the fortune teller scene, I wanted the cat to react poorly to Sam and Julia to make things spooky. Over time her back story developed and I pulled her into a larger role. Since I write by the seat of my pants, I let the characters shape the story so I can’t remember exactly how she developed. Now she’s got a huge role in The Sapphire Talisman, which I never predicted and very pleased about.

The Sapphire Talisman

JL: I understand there will be a third book in The Talisman Series, The Onyx Talisman. How’s that one coming along? Will there be any more books in the series?

BP: I’ve taken a little break to promote the Sapphire Talisman, but plan to pick it up shortly so it will be ready fall/winter of 2011. I’ve got a loose outline, but it’s still in its infancy. I’ve been writing crucial scenes as they come to me, like I did when writing The Emerald Talisman. The Sapphire Talisman was written from the beginning to the end, and I struggled a little more with it. But I predict, as it’s writing itself in my head, it’ll come together fast.
 
Thank you, Brenda!
 
Now on to the Meet an Author Monday Blog Hop, hosted by Lisa Sanchez.

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Alpha or Beta: How Do You Like Your Heroes?

I’ve been fortunate to receive some wonderful reviews of With Good Behavior, and several readers have commented that they fell hard for romantic hero Grant Madsen in all his McSailor McMuffinicious goodness. However, a couple of reviewers commented that Grant was too soft and sensitive, particularly since he’s a former Navy lieutenant who just emerged from prison.

I’ve learned that I shouldn’t hang my hat on any particular review, but one of the most intriguing parts of writing for me has been the wildly different reactions readers have for the same novel. Challenging the believability of an emotionally expressive romantic hero really got me thinking about two questions:

1) Can a man be sensitive and kind, shedding a tear when pushed to his limits, and still be masculine?

My answer to this question is a resounding YES! In my role as a psychologist, I observe men cry. Most of the times they’re embarrassed as hell and promptly apologize for their tears. But I never view emotional expression like that as a sign of weakness. I think it takes incredible strength to face feelings head on–much more strength than numbing the feelings through a drinking binge, for example. We’re human and we feel emotions whether we like it or not.

Unfortunately, our culture teaches men to stifle those emotions. In his thoughtful book Real Boys, William Pollack explores male socialization.

Pollack examines the lessons we pass along to boys. We teach boys to be stoic, strong, and rugged. We tell them to suck it up, that they’re only acceptable if they’re star athletes. We administer tough love from a young age, erroneously believing that showing warmth and understanding will make boys weak. If boys stray from the tightly controlled behavior we expect of them, others call them cruel names and homophobic slurs. Boys quickly learn to behave in stereotypically masculine ways.

Is this a good thing for male development? I’ve found that suppressing all emotion sure can make adult relationships difficult. What if a boy feels drawn to be an artist or dancer? What if he hates sports? What if he’s not very muscular? These boys suffer greatly and often become the targets of bullies. I believe we should love boys and men for who they are instead of forcing them into a very limiting mold.

Onto my second question:

2) How do you feel about “beta” males? Must the romantic hero be an “alpha”?

I think this is a highly personal preference. Alpha males are typically dominant, muscular, demanding leaders. Beta males are more respectful of women and less power-hungry.

I prefer a man to have alpha and beta qualities. My romantic lead Grant Madsen is a survivor of childhood abuse, making him somewhat of a people pleaser and sensitive to others’ emotions. However, he’s also physically strong, intelligent, and capable. What kind of romantic hero is your favorite?

Because I love to explore themes of healing and redemption, I strive to write characters growing stronger throughout the series. And I believe that “stronger” could mean becoming more alpha or beta–whatever the man needs to be authentic and confident. I’ll be curious to see what reviewers think of Grant’s character in the second installment of The Conduct Series: Bad Behavior (coming out in March, 2011).

Well, it’s Monday again, and I have to work even though it’s a holiday. *pouts* Perhaps the Meet an Author Monday Blog Hop will lift my spirits. Check out Lisa Sanchez’s blog for details.

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Stylish Blogger Award

Today, I received a Stylish Blogger Award. *beams* And now I’m passing it on!
Here are the guidelines:
Link back to the person who gave it to you.
Give 7 facts about yourself.
Award 15 great bloggers you’ve recently discovered.
Contact them and tell them about the award.

So here it goes. I got the award from Angela Rain, Author in Training
Seven random facts about me:

* I played piano as a kid, but begged my mom to stop making me take lessons because I was too tired from swim team to practice the piano.

* I can touch the tip of my tongue to my nose.

* I like a good cry. It’s very relieving.

* I wasn’t sure I could handle being a therapist at first, but now I love it.

* I’m anxious about cars. I know nothing about car repair. Sometimes I obsessively worry I haven’t screwed the cap to the gas tank back on.

* Prison Break is my all time favorite TV show. Wentworth Miller = SWOON.

* When I was about twelve, I wrote an essay about why my mom should be “Mother of the Year” and when she won, I got a $200 mall gift certificate!

And now, I’m bestowing the award on my favorite blogs!
(I also love Joanna St. James’ blog but she already won the award).
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Psychoanalyze Your Characters 6: Bulimia Nervosa

Today I’ll wrap up the “Psycho Author” series with a discussion about the eating disorder Bulimia Nervosa. I might return later to tips about characterization based on psychopathology, particularly if I receive requests to cover different disorders. I’ll post links to the series on the right of my blog for authors to access.

Earlier I said that Anorexia Nervosa was the deadliest eating disorder, but there are increasing data that Bulimia Nervosa (BN) might be just as lethal. BN involves binge eating episodes (eating a significantly larger amount of food than most would consume in one setting plus feeling out of control) and purging (trying to get rid of calories through self-induced vomiting, laxatives, diuretics, overexercise, etc.) Purging can greatly disrupt one’s heart and electrolyte levels, as well as a host of other health risks.

Bulimia is Latin for “ox hunger”, referring to the intense hunger preceding a binge. Most eating disorders start with a diet, and BN is no different. We know that severe calorie restriction often leads to binge eating. A common pattern is to skip breakfast and/or lunch, believing that helps with weight loss, and then feeling so starved that dinner becomes a binge. Intense guilt and self-hatred follow. Those with Binge Eating Disorder stop there, but those with Bulimia Nervosa frantically try to compensate for the extra calories by purging.

Most people with BN are at an average or above-average weight because restricting followed by binge-eating and purging are not effective weight-loss strategies. Restricting slows down the metabolic fire, and dumping a lot of binge calories on a cold fire means they don’t burn well. Purging methods are often ineffective. One study showed that for individuals who binged and then immediately vomited, over 60% of the calories had been absorbed by their bodies. Laxatives work on a part of the digestive tract where over 95% of calories have been already absorbed. Diuretics only affect water weight and are the most dangerous of all purging methods.

Why do individuals continue to binge and purge despite knowing it doesn’t help them lose weight? For many it becomes an addiction. Sugar can affect the brain much like cocaine, raising dopamine levels and creating a “high”. Likewise, vomiting releases “vasopressin”, a hormone that mimics a heroin high. Laxatives and diuretics can create desired feelings of emptiness and a flat stomach.

A way out of the BN addiction is to work with a dietitian and a therapist, as well as a medical doctor. The dietitian can help the client follow a healthy meal plan, eating frequent small amounts, to reduce the risk of a binge. The therapist can help the client learn how to cope with negative feelings (like anxiety and anger) more effectively. Purging is often an angry, punishing act to the body, and there might be a trauma history to heal from as well.

I loved the movie Center Stage about the intense world of ballet. Actress Susan May Pratt played the role of Maureen, a ballerina who fell into BN.

What I loved about this role was that it showed the multiple causes of an eating disorder, like high anxiety, pressure to lose weight, pursuing somebody else’s dream (the loss of her “voice”), and low self-esteem.

Now it’s time for Meet an Author Monday Blog Hop, hosted by Lisa Sanchez.

We’re adding a new feature to the weekly Meet an Author Monday posts. The last Monday of each month will include a featured post along with the author hop. This month, participating authors will be sharing their favorite writing spot, and posting a photo of where the magic happens. Stay tuned!